Relax by Ladaryl

"Relax" by Ladaryl reflects my journey as a black man in America, addressing politics, commercialism, and the irreplaceable role of fathers. It's a call for critical thinking and resilience.
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by Ladaryl

Oct 20, 2023

The beat for “Relax” is a live session beat created exclusively by talented women, infusing their creative energy into the track, spanning from Italy to South Africa to Romania, making it a global collaboration. The chorus was inspired by one of my favorite books, “Relax, It’s Just God” by Wendy Thomas Russell. It’s a nod to the power of literature and how it can influence and sculpt our outlooks. I want to take you through the lyrics of my song, “Relax.” This track brilliantly ties politics and fatherhood to fit the album’s theme. Let’s break it down.

Changing Times and Unchanging Realities

The song starts by throwing us back to the days when President Obama graced the White House, setting the stage on the eve of Father’s Day weekend. His remarks at a White House Town Hall on the topic of fatherhood bridge the politics-fatherhood gap. I rap, “The last time I was in America, Obama was the president,” and reflect on how I thought I had escaped the political madness. Some Canadians, upon hearing my accent, even mistook me for an ambassador, underscoring the complexities of my experiences.

Being a black man hailing from the American South, it becomes essential for me to share my unique perspective. This perspective provides a window into how I’ve witnessed the world change over time, or in some cases, how it has remained unchanged.

Finding Strength in Tough Times

When I say, “Relax, it’s just the government,” it’s a reminder that while politics can be frustrating and messy, we have our own strengths. The government is made up of a small group of individuals with their own agenda, looking out for themselves and their families, just like us. We are less of a priority than most are willing to accept. We’ve got to find our inner resilience and self-worth to face the challenges that come our way.

America as a Business

In the second verse, I dive deep into the idea that America is more of a business than a country. “It’s so great of a business. Even convinced its customers that they’re citizens.” It’s a thought-provoking notion because it seems like profit and consumerism drive so much of what happens here, there, everywhere. I challenge the concept of patriotism being intertwined with consumerism and commercial values.

Live From Fatherhood album cover art.

 

 

A Call for Critical Thinking

I borrowed the line “Maybe I should hold it down, ’cause they shut you down when you speak from your heart” from André 3000, widely regarded as one of the greatest artists ever. “But, I rather not,” I added. I want you to question the status quo, to not accept everything at face value. The influence of lobbyists and the illusion of justice and equality are things we need to be aware of. It’s crucial to have a critical mind and understand the systems shaping our lives..

Refrain: Holding Onto Resilience

The chorus repeats the message of resilience. It’s about letting go of the emotional turmoil surrounding politics and focusing on our personal strengths. We should be engaged citizens, but we also need to remember that real change often starts at the grassroots level, from within.

Fatherhood’s Role in a Child’s Life

I can’t emphasize enough the role of fathers in a child’s life. The government can provide resources, but fathers play an irreplaceable role in shaping a child’s future. Being there for our kids, guiding them, and being their role models are vital responsibilities.

A Thought-Provoking Social Commentary

“Relax” is a song that speaks from a seemingly harsh yet liberating realization. It’s about sharing my experiences and thoughts on the world, the government, and the importance of family. It’s a song that invites you to think, question, and grow. I hope it resonates with you and encourages you to reflect on the world around you. Thanks for your time.

About me

Nanaimo, BC

Hello!

I'm Ladaryl

I am a 40-year-old father of four and the visionary behind the magnum opus, "Live From Fatherhood," which I proudly consider the greatest album ever crafted.
Live From Fatherhood

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