“Me, Myself & My Expectations” is the fastest song I’ve ever written, completed in less than 30 minutes. One of my favorite quotes from Zeitgeist: The Movie, “Being wrong is erroneously associated with failure, when, in fact, to be proven wrong should be celebrated, for it elevates someone to a new level of understanding,” inspired a modified version that I included in this song.

Trusting Individual Interpretations

In the opening lines, I express my trust in people to be true to their interpretations of their situations. It’s a perspective I’ve come to embrace, recognizing that everyone’s reality is unique. My intention here is to encourage understanding and empathy, rather than imposing our expectations on others and then blaming them for our disappointment.

The Weight of Unmet Expectations

In the first verse, I delve into a situation where I granted someone the benefit of the doubt, only to find myself disappointed. I acknowledge the unrealistic expectations I placed on them. It’s a situation many of us encounter – the contrast between our idealized version of someone and their actual selves. I rap, “Oh, you’re mistaken. No advantage was taken. Gave it. Thought you’d appreciate it. That there’s on me, though. Put unrealistic expectations on unsuspecting people.”

Acknowledging Personal Responsibility

The chorus acknowledges, “That’s my fault. I know what you are. Excused it, justified the shit that you did. And, now I’m lookin’ stupid. Could’ve avoided this situation. I know, I know. Me, myself & my expectations.” Here, I take ownership of the situation, recognizing that I allowed my assumptions and expectations to guide my actions, which led to regret.

Wisdom in Accepting Reality

In the second verse, I offer a piece of timeless wisdom: “When someone shows you who they are, believe ’em the first time.” This is a reminder to trust in the actions people present rather than projecting our own ideals onto them. I emphasize the importance of not overly judging people based on their potential, which often leads to disillusionment. “I thought I was the victim, though. You were just doing your usual. I was too delusional,” I rapped.

Embracing Mistakes and Growth

I emphasize my willingness to accept my mistakes and move forward. Being wrong isn’t a sign of failure but a chance for growth. The verse concludes with the notion that there’s no need to apologize for expecting too much from others; it’s a very human inclination. I rap, “I just had to learn being too close to you get me roast too. Who the fuck am I to think you’d should think that I am special? To better fit my narrative, only way I tried to help you.”

An Invitation to Self-Reflection

“Me, Myself & My Expectations” invites listeners to engage in self-reflection and introspection. It serves as a reminder that we should treat others as individuals with their own narratives and not as characters in our personal stories. My sincerity and self-awareness run deep in this song, making it a powerful anthem for anyone who has ever grappled with the weight of their own expectations and the consequences that follow.

In a world that often lacks understanding and empathy, “Me, Myself & My Expectations” serves as a reminder that accepting our humanity, acknowledging our mistakes, and learning from them are integral to personal growth. It’s a song that encourages each of us to scrutinize our own expectations and, in doing so, invites us to evolve and mature.

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